CAN YOU FIX STUPID WITH GROWTH MINDSET?

We tell our children that college is the only way to a better future. I grew up believing that intelligence is absolute power and it was for that reason that I was never concerned about what college I got into. I knew that it didn’t really matter. I knew that all I needed was the […]

IF YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS, DON’T FOCUS ON THEM.

I unplugged for almost 48 hours. This means that I have more than a few people to get back in touch with today and I am also behind schedule on editing. Yesterday I spent snuggled on the couch with my boyfriend watching Clint Eastwood movies. The week before was a heavy one for us on […]

JUNK FOOD. VODKA. BUSINESS.

On July 26, 2011 I was a successful business woman. I had plenty of work, a great big beautiful house, gardens of flowers, and I had love.  I had everything I have ever wished for except more time and more of me.  This is what my life was like then… Last night I finished my […]

THE MISTAKES WE MAKE AND DIVORCE

We were supposed to make it to the end. I believed that we would be married forever, just as I still believe that true love is eternal. Love does not go away when opinion is not agreeable or life gets hard. If you are married and it’s been awhile you may not be sure what […]

BRAIN DUMP: HOW TO GET STARTED WHEN THERE IS TOO MUCH TO DO.

I woke to the sound of rain on roof top and it was welcome. The rain was a welcome distraction from too many thoughts, all of which have requirements of action, a need to follow through. “When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don’t adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.” -Confucius […]

CHANCES ARE ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN

It had been a year. It had been one year and one day since I met the guy I would take a chance on. It would be our first anniversary of many. “Our first date was exactly one year ago babe.” He pulled me to snuggle as we remembered. “Do you remember?” I started to […]