BEFORE HE CHEATS: written by anonymous

“It’s OK. I understand.” That’s all I had to say in reply to the truth. He is planning to cheat on me. He couldn’t deny it either. The closest he could come was to text me, “Just so you know I didn’t meet anybody or do anything.” I sat there staring at my phone wondering […]

KEEP THE FAITH. KEEP THE FOCUS.

Today is day seven of the Oxygen Magazine fitness challenge. I woke up this morning to a stomach tied in knots, with a heart racing, and now I am pacing. I feel anxious, nervous, and tight. I can’t quite find my center. Breathe. I take a deep breath, in through the nose and out through […]

KNOWING YOUR OWN POWER #fire #dragon

6:23 am #day4 Today is day four of the Oxygen Magazine Fitness Challenge. If you are not familiar with the contest I hope you will follow my story and then if it comes back around again, I hope you enter it. I wish that everyone could be on the journey I am on. These next […]

THE MISTAKES WE MAKE AND DIVORCE

We were supposed to make it to the end. I believed that we would be married forever, just as I still believe that true love is eternal. Love does not go away when opinion is not agreeable or life gets hard. If you are married and it’s been awhile you may not be sure what […]

IS YOUR EX THE BETTER PARENT?

“Sapphire’s dad is a better person than me.” I said from my seat as passenger. “Maybe I have already broken the cycle of abuse. Maybe I have already given my daughter a different life because her dad is so good.” My boyfriend was thoughtful, “I am glad that Sapphire has a great dad Amber, but […]

HOW TO PREPARE FOR A DIVORCE

I was happy the day my husband asked me for a divorce. I was happy in every aspect of my life except for the fact that he was not happy with me. I remember asking myself if he had good reason to not want to stay with me. I knew in my heart that he […]