SEXUAL JUDGEMENT AND COOKING WITH FINGERS: A Vlog

“Each of us is born with a box of matches inside us but we can’t strike them all by ourselves; we need oxygen and a candle to help. In this case, the oxygen for example, would come from the breath of the person you love; the candle would be any kind of food, music, caress, […]

CHASING A DIFFERENT KIND OF HIGH

Today I stopped in to introduce myself to a few local business owners in downtown Olympia. Then I hugged a homeless man on a street corner. I have never hugged a homeless man before. I hugged him big. I hugged him close. He smelled like dirt and pine. His name is Tom and he is […]

THE MISTAKES WE MAKE AND DIVORCE

We were supposed to make it to the end. I believed that we would be married forever, just as I still believe that true love is eternal. Love does not go away when opinion is not agreeable or life gets hard. If you are married and it’s been awhile you may not be sure what […]

WHAT I’M WRITING NOW

“My most accurate accounting is that I chickened out at 189 pounds, and for awhile that is what I was doing. I was playing chicken with my scale for fun, feeding my face just to see what would happen to it when I finally did make it to 200. Would anyone love me less? I […]